If you’re anything like me, you will have a lot of different goals in life. But what if you don’t meet these goals?
In today’s episode, I want to talk about reasons why you don’t see results, specifically in your personal growth journey. If you keep trying to meet your goals, but it’s just not working: listen up!
In this episode you will learn:
- 5 common reasons why you’re not seeing results.
- What to do about internal doubt when you’re goals.
- How to overcome obstacles when working towards results.
Common reasons why you don’t see results
I would like to go into five common reasons why many people don’t see the results they’re hoping for in their personal growth journey.
The first reason is that you’re trying to do it all on your own. The mistake you’re making is to assume that somehow, without any guidance and without any help, you can do this entirely on your own.
The number two reason why you’re not seeing results when it comes to your personal growth is that you wait until things get really out of hand to finally pay attention to your needs and what makes you feel better.
The third reason why we don’t see results: you’re simply not clear on what you want as a result and why that matters to you.
The fourth reason is because like most of us, you underestimated the work that it will need to get to the results that you want.
And lastly, you’re not committed to doing the work all the way through the ups and downs until you see results.
What to do when you’re caught up not seeing results?
There are several principles that will help you see results immediately:
- Believe in yourself and stick to your goals.
- Remind yourself that the goal is to see the results and that you will be successful at overcoming the obstacles along the way.
- Keep in mind why you started.
Apart from these principles, I want you to brainstorm and come up with more ideas. What are all the things that are in my control to accomplish this goal? And then ask yourself, how can I guarantee the result?
I’m with you through this
I want you to start thinking of the support that you are going to need to get there. And of course, I want to invite you to work with me, but if it’s not me, if you don’t vibe with my energy, find your coach elsewhere. Coaching will work for you if you want someone to hold a vision for you in those moments, when you lack belief.
My doors will be opening soon for the September cohort of my Reset Your Mindset group. I’m also going to be offering a Detox The Mind, five date live coaching in September, September 12. So if this is for you, if you are a perfectionist, attached to achievements, overdoing, constantly fed up with your own mind, wanting to get a break from thinking so much from feeling disappointed from being so hard on yourself. I want to coach you through that.
Here is my favorite toolbox to get you started on that Mindfulness road. Click here!
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